As an optional exercise for my YALSA web course, we could listen to a recorded version of Patrick Jones' "Moment of Truth Rap," a guided imagery exercise that brings you back to your teen years and particularly into your teen experience of the library. (The exercise can be found in Do it Right!: Best Practices for Serving Young Adults in School and Public Libraries by Patrick Jones and Joel Shoemaker.) I loved the library as a teen but being terribly shy I didn't interact with the librarians or other staff very much. I don't particularly recall them being friendly or unfriendly, although I was a bit intimidated by them.
Perhaps the most interesting memory the exercise brought back was how in high school, I put a note in the library copy of Sylvia Plath's diary, hoping to meet a kindred spirit. I went back a few times but no one ever replied and after several months I took the note out. I couldn't relate to many kids in my town, and just think how social networking online might have helped me find other teens I had stuff in common with! (I've done just that as an adult. Many of my good friends are people I first met online via common interests.) The internet often provides a way for shy or socially awkward people to test the waters of being social. While there are dangers online for lonely teens, there's also a wealth of possibility.
Nancy Kunz, TUK
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